[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fqs8LcBhJMo[/youtube]
If you were to record every word you said during the day, played it back, and then dissected them you would be astounded at some of the language you actually use.
Why is that? Your thinking mind naturally darts off into many different directions during any one conversation. Your mind compares every word with your internal barometer based on past experiences and beliefs stored deep in the subconscious mind. Then based on what is in your file cabinet of responses, you then choose the same types of words, sentences, and phrases that you have used in the past.
There is only one challenge with this. If you want to stay the same with the same results that you have gotten up to this point – great BUT if you want to achieve more, have better relationships, break a pattern or become more successful in your life it all starts with doing something radically different.
That difference starts with a new thought. You can’t change your language until you have a new thought about what you want to communicate (and yes, communication is key to your success). What you say, how you say it, and how it is received is extremely important and one of the things most people overlook.
How do you know if you are doing it well? Ask yourself, on a scale of 1-10 (10 being perfecto) how you measure up in regard to the results you are getting in both your personal and professional life. Didn’t give yourself a 10? If not…
Here are 3 Ways to Change your Language to Achieve More Success:
1.) Keep a “word/sentence /phrase journal- Every time you hear a word or phrase and think “I like the way they said that” write it down.
2.) Several times that day, take your notebook and glance at it just before having that important phone conversation, walking into a meeting, or chatting with your own children. Practice using this new language until the words become a natural part of your dialogue.
3.) Once you collect a list of 25 – 50 of your favorite words, phrases and comments record them into some sort of audio device and listen to them right before you fall asleep at night so that they penetrate deep into your subconscious mind.
I know if you apply the above 3 POWERFUL strategies into your daily life your increased level of success (and happiness) will simply astonish you. Are you ready?
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Wishing you MUCH Prosperity and Success,
Great video will try your suggestions..yes words a very powerful!
Hi Wendy, Very true and very powerful. Looking forward to meeting you when you are in RI!